I delve into the complex world of closure within toxic relationships , focusing on emotional abuse , gaslighting, and the troubling traits of the dark triad – narcissism, machiavellianism, and sociopathy . I explore the critical role of closure in healing and moving forward, while highlighting the detrimental effects of its absence, leaving one trapped in a cycle of pain and uncertainty.
The first half offers a thorough analysis of psychological studies related to these issues, emphasizing the need for considerations before judgment and awareness of cognitive biases. The second half is a candid account of my ordeal with an individual I refer to as ‘A’, who has refused to provide closure. I share the steps I took to investigate his true nature, including astrological and human design insights and examining his behavior through the lens of psychology.
I lay out my findings through the process I call noetic justice, with the prosecution arguing that A is a sociopath incapable of change and the defense proposing alternative explanations rooted in unconscious actions driven by trauma and astrological destinies suggesting the possibility of misunderstood behaviors and the capacity for change.
Referenced Books:
Planets in Solar Returns: Yearly Cycles of Transformation & Growth by Mary Fortier Shea
Psychodynamic Diagnostic Manual, Second Edition (PDM-2)